They are fruit, generally, of broken marriages and the mothers – who usually are the one who remain the safekeeping of the small ones – decide to take care of to them and to educate single to them difficult Task, sincerely. Many ancestors see themselves in the situation to face single the raising and education of their children, something that have not chosen. Divorced widowers and. Although also he has who elije thus, generally women. But all have the same doubts, do not know they are doing if it or, if they are to the height, if they simultaneously exert or the task of father and mother, thing totally mistaken, is impossible to exert the double task simultaneously. Guilty feel, guilty of not being able to offer to their children a united and happy family. Also they feel preoccupation, by the result of the lack of the other ancestor, and attribute the problems that the small ones can have to the situation.
To educate and to take care of to the children have only made it throughout history many women and some men, are not a far from easy task, but he is not negative either. It is impossible to replace the father or the mother who is not although yes can replace. For example, if the mother – that since before I have mentioned, usually remains with the safekeeping of the children – a new relation with another man begins, this she happens to replace the figure of the father, but would not have to replace it although she does not have relation with them. It would be necessary to emphasize that we do not have to act like the other person whom is being replaced. We must always act being we ourself, as if we were not another person.
Otherwise the danger is run to lose instead of to win. In the case of single woman mothers – women who have decided to have single children – it has, besides the habitual ones that already we have mentioned previously, other problems. In these cases the children receive too much affection, the mother usually turn upside down completely in their son. And this usually creates a great dependency on the part of the boy, in these cases the best thing than it is possible to be done is to try that the boy has relation with other people, that is not the presence of the mother the unique one whom it has. Or they are grandparents, neighbors Although the best thing would be with children of its age or in the day-care center or the park. The important thing is that in the life of the small one there are other people since this could harm the psychological development of both. Anyway, the one that an alive boy only with one of his parents would not have why to be a problem. He generally must not why have lack in his education nor in its life, the really important thing is that the person who is in charge of her raising makes good use of the word, just as happens in the classic families. When it must decide the heart is better than it decides the head. Gratefulness to iMprove (to publish in iphone). For but information on personal development to see the applications iphone of iMprove.